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Sunday, May 23, 2010

Response to Men and Women Don’t Need One Another.

Few days ago I read an article that inspired me to write this blog. The author tried to convince us that the men and women don’t need one another. Men need women only for sex and women need men only for money. Moreover, men with low sexual drive think about women as worthless. The author manifests that we have already entered or on the corner to ‘ a new society where hypocrisy would be gone and sincerity between men and women would be the rule’; the price in exchange for sex would be negotiated in the meeting places as bars and dancing flours and motels would be place for making love.

Is this is true? Are we really all going to spin-in soon in mating baboons? Seriously, what if people’s values have changed; what if love was valuable yesterday and today’s people only craving for sex and money?

Yes, we, the women are very familiar with our differences with men. Many men do not realize that a woman can’t make automatic emotional lip into his bed when she meets him for the first time. We women like sex too but we don’t want just sex without emotions attached. We want attention and love or you may call it as a relationship. Yes, we love to be in relationship more than we love sex. Money could buy you physical intercourse in which not even small piece of love exists and you will feel it emptiness, have no doubt, with no one there to help you or cheer you up or dream about you. My point is sex begins and ends but we women want to have something that to be continued; which is an emotional connection to another person. And if men are not capable to it then we have a problem. But if you are willing to wait and give us some time to develop that connection you will enjoy sex on other level that is far beyond just the physical.

We, men and women could easily survive on our own without each other but question is are we going to be happy. Do we want to live in society where we throw away not only material things we don’t need but also throw the love in exchange for sex and money? Money bring us happiness. Fine. Why then so many unhappy and lonely among the rich ones?

Do you ever think what if you had to choose only between sex and love or love and money what would you choose?

Even the most skeptical of us, who dated a lot but still single as me, need to have a belief and hope that one day love may still happen because we need to have mining for our whole existence and love would serve just fair enough for it.

So cheer yourself up! Where are not there yet and I hope we will never be in that time where  a society will go in separate direction for men and women.
Because despite our differences we all, men and women want the same things: love and prosperity, healthy children and of course world peace.

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