I consider myself an expert in relationships because I screw up every single one I had and eventually gave up on love completely but that is a different story. Today I want to talk about how it is hot to be alone. So I am alone and I am hot. Actually I do believe me being single is the real reason me looking hot.
Seriously, let’s face it. How many married women you know are looking hot? These days a married woman just doesn’t have time to look hot anymore. Women gave up on being hot after she said- I do and it’s not her fault. When I see how my girlfriends trying to go through the day with children, work, husbands and housework, not everyone can afford a housekeeper by the way, I say to myself oh, thanks God that I don’t have all these problems.
Instead I have plenty of time to enjoy my life, of course I work hard but after that I do what I want. I exercise, I eat right, I buy nice clothes, I go to the movies, I go out and etc. When I look at a married woman I see her sometimes messy hair, messy dress, no manicure and they are always in a hurry. I ask myself are we really trying to look hot just because we want to attract a man? If it is not true, then why we look like a mess after 5-10 years of marriage? What happened to us after we got married? Does marriage kill our desire to look hot or we just stop trying? After all we have already won our man's heart. Why the hell we have to be hot again, he loves us for who we are and not for how we look. Is that so?
Every Sunday I meet with my married girlfriend, A for breakfast at the nice French café . She allows herself to have a little time away from her home and even that she looks at her watch every fifteen minutes or her child or her husband calls because he doesn’t know where the socks are and etc. And my girlfriend after breakfast runs home like a crazy to cook, to clean, to wash. She is doing 4-5 baskets of laundry every Sunday starting from 8 am. Can you imagine? Do I really want to have such life? I don’t think so. So why then I still feel envy to her messy, busy and not hot life?
Life is made by many choices. Sometimes external, sometimes internal. I think overall we want is to get a better control of our life, and live no regret.
ReplyDeletenow i understood why married women have sorter life than free ones
ReplyDeleteI'm sure we, married women, envy the life that our single girlfrieds have with their ability to live the way they like. However, I think this ability and choices come when our kids grow and become independent or when we don't have kids. It's not just husbands who make our life messy and busy, it's our kids for the most part and not everybody wants to be just a "mom". I don't but I feel I became a"mommy" after my kid was born...both to my child and my husband and I don't like it. That's why I envy single girls sometimes. Also, it is hard to go from "mommy" to "hot". This is to answer your question about why married women don't look or feel hot.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment.
ReplyDeleteI am not so sure if it is shorter or not but I think the married women definitely have more complicated life than single ones.
Sara
Maybe it is just in our woman’s nature to want what we cannot have at the moment. Singles want a family and married women want more freedom. Thank you for your comment, it inspired my next topic.
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